- Explore the Fet Life & Find kinky connections
For Doms, Subs & Every Shade
of Power Play.
Originally a dating site for tattoo lovers, Dating Ink has grown into the UK’s most trusted platform for authentic BDSM, fetish and kink connections. Whether you’re a seasoned Dominant, curious submissive, brat, primal, or anything in between, this is your safe, judgement-free space to live your truth.
Originally for tattoo lovers, Dating Ink is now the UK’s leading platform for safe, consensual BDSM and kink dating.
Real people with real kinks
Every profile is manually verified. No fakes, no bots. just genuine kinksters looking for play, connection, or both.
Discretion You Can Trust
Full control over your visibility, photos, and messages. Reveal only what you want, when you want, to whom you want.
Explore your needs as you please
From occasional scenes to 24/7 dynamics, casual play partners to lifelong contracts. You set the rules, we help you find the match.
Safe & Secure for your protection
Industry-leading scammer protection, active moderation, and strict consent policies keep the community real and respectful.
- safe & secure
Collars, Contracts & Genuine Connections
Unlike anonymous forums or vanilla apps, Dating Ink is a true BDSM community built on trust, respect, and shared values. Perfect for anyone searching “BDSM dating UK”, “find a Domme near me”, or “submissive dating”.
Create Your Profile
Browse Members Privately
Connect with Confidence
Explore New Kinks & Fetishes
- Discover the fet life at your own pace
Your Limits, Your Safeword, Your Rules
Build a detailed profile listing your hard limits, safe words, experience level, and favourite toys. Search by role, kink compatibility, location, or even favourite implement. Every conversation starts with consent and respect, because good BDSM always does.
- When it comes to the fet life - trust matters
Built on Trust, Consent & Authenticity
Safety and trust sit at the heart of every connection on Dating Ink. Our platform aligns with UK best-practice guidance from organisations such as the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO), Cifas, the Financial Conduct Authority (FCA), and Identity Protection | Prevent Personal Fraud | Cifas to help protect users from romance fraud, data misuse, and other online risks.
We also signpost to respected UK bodies offering clear, practical advice on spotting fraud, securing your information, and staying safe while building connections online.
All profiles on Dating Ink are verified, monitored, and proactively moderated to uphold a community built on respect, authenticity, and personal safety.
Check out what our members say…
From impact play to role-reversal, the community here is vibrant and unapologetic about exploring every desire.
Anonymous
Finally found a partner who shares my rope bondage passion without judgment—matches feel genuine and exciting!
Anonymous
The kink filters are spot-on, connecting me with like-minded subs in my area for thrilling, discreet encounters.
Anonymous
This site turned my foot fetish fantasy into reality with respectful, eager profiles that prioritise consent.
Anonymous
- From Tattoos to Kinks
From Tattoo Marks to Collar Marks
We began connecting people through their tattoos, but quickly discovered most of our members were hiding even deeper marks—collar marks, rope burns, and bruises worn with pride. That shared passion for intensity and authenticity turned us into the UK’s most respected home for BDSM and kink dating.
- Discover the fet life at your own pace
Kneel Before the UK’s Most Serious BDSM Community
Stop scrolling through vanilla apps and risky forums. Whether you’re looking for a play partner this weekend, a long-term dynamic, or simply others who understand why you need this—Dating Ink is where real kinksters meet, negotiate, and thrive.