- Explore the Fet Life & Find kinky connections
For Tattoos, Kinks
& Chemistry.
Originally a dating site for tattoo lovers, Dating Ink is now one of the UK’s leading platforms for fetish and kink exploration. From tattoos to bondage and beyond, it’s a safe space to express your fet life with trust, consent, and authenticity.
Originally for tattoo lovers, Dating Ink is now the UK’s trusted platform for safe, authentic fetish and kink exploration.
Real people with real kinks
Every member is verified and looking for meaningful connections -not endless browsing or bots.
Discretion You Can Trust
Explore your needs as you please
Safe & Secure for your protection
- safe & secure
A safer alternative to for those exploring the fet life
Unlike anonymous fetish forums, Dating Ink is a true community built for people who want to connect and explore in confidence. It’s a fresh, secure alternative for those searching “FetLife UK” or “fetish dating near me” — without the noise, spam, or judgement.
We’ve taken the best parts of traditional social networking and combined them with genuine adult dating — helping you meet people who share your interests, values, and fantasies.
Create Your Profile
Browse Members Privately
Connect with Confidence
Explore New Kinks & Fetishes
- WHAT FETISH TICKLES YOUR FANCY...
IF YOUR KINK DOESN'T END WITH INK...
Explore your wild side with a community that gets it. Whether you’re drawn to control, sensation, or connection, Dating Ink lets you meet people who share your desires – safely, confidently, and without judgement.
Bondage
Find partners who understand the beauty of control, restraint, and trust. From rope play to cuffs, explore bondage with people who know consent is everything.
Roleplay
Step into your fantasies with members who love to act them out. Whether you’re a teacher, a nurse, or a superhero, bring your imagination to life without judgement.
Anal
Looking for someone who shares your passion for pleasure and exploration? Connect with open-minded people who know how to communicate, prepare, and enjoy it safely.
MILF
For those drawn to confident, experienced women who know exactly what they want. Explore connections built on desire, trust, and playful power dynamics.
Swinging
Couples and singles welcome – meet others who enjoy shared experiences and honest fun. Explore connection, chemistry, and excitement in a safe community.
Voyeurism
Watch, be watched, or both – it’s your choice. Join others who love the thrill of exhibitionism and voyeurism, all within a space built on respect and consent.
- Discover the fet life at your own pace
Your FetISH, Your Rules
Dating Ink gives you the tools to safely explore your fetish lifestyle online.
Build a profile that reflects your kinks and curiosities, browse local matches, and connect through private, consent-driven conversations.
Whether you’re a Dom, sub, switch, voyeur – or just curious, you’ll find people who understand your boundaries and share your energy.
We celebrate all expressions of sexuality – from tattoo and piercing lovers to BDSM, rope play, latex, and roleplay enthusiasts.
Your fet life shouldn’t feel hidden.
Here, it’s celebrated by us and the publications we have featured in too!
- When it comes to the fet life - trust matters
Built on Trust, Consent & Authenticity
Safety and trust sit at the heart of every connection on Dating Ink. Our platform aligns with UK best-practice guidance from organisations such as the Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO), Cifas, the Financial Conduct Authority (FCA), and Identity Protection | Prevent Personal Fraud | Cifas to help protect users from romance fraud, data misuse, and other online risks.
We also signpost to respected UK bodies offering clear, practical advice on spotting fraud, securing your information, and staying safe while building connections online.
All profiles on Dating Ink are verified, monitored, and proactively moderated to uphold a community built on respect, authenticity, and personal safety.
Check out what our members say…
From impact play to role-reversal, the community here is vibrant and unapologetic about exploring every desire.
Anonymous
Finally found a partner who shares my rope bondage passion without judgment—matches feel genuine and exciting!
Anonymous
The kink filters are spot-on, connecting me with like-minded subs in my area for thrilling, discreet encounters.
Anonymous
This site turned my foot fetish fantasy into reality with respectful, eager profiles that prioritise consent.
Anonymous
- From Tattoos to Kinks
How Dating Ink Evolved
When Dating Ink launched, it was all about connecting people who love tattoos – those who wear their stories in ink. But as our community grew, something more powerful happened: a space formed where people could share more than tattoos. They shared passions, fetishes, and fantasies.
That evolution led us here – a fully inclusive platform for fetish dating, kink discovery, and real-world connections. Tattoos may be where it began, but today, Dating Ink is for everyone who embraces individuality and pleasure without apology.
- Discover the fet life at your own pace
Join the UK’s Most Open-Minded Fetish Community
Whether you’re searching for a play partner, a long-term dynamic, or a like-minded friend, Dating Ink helps you meet real people who get your world.
You can explore everything from fetish fun and casual flings to deep, ongoing dynamics – all within a respectful, inclusive space.
We make it simple, safe, and exciting to live your fet life authentically.
Frequently asked questions
What is a fetish dating site?
A fetish dating site is an online platform that connects adults who share specific kinks, fetishes, or sexual interests, allowing them to explore safely and consensually.
Is fetish dating safe?
Yes, as long as you use verified platforms that prioritise consent, privacy, and user moderation. Dating Ink, for example, uses scammer protection and an active moderation team to keep users safe.
Do I need to show my face or identity?
No, many members choose to stay anonymous or use discreet photos until they feel comfortable sharing more. Your privacy is always respected.
Can couples or groups join?
Absolutely. Fetish dating isn’t limited to singles. Many couples and polyamorous groups join to explore together or connect with like-minded people.
Is fetish dating just about sex?
Not always. For some, it’s about connection, trust, and shared fantasies. Many users join to meet partners, explore dynamics, or discuss kinks openly..
What types of fetishes are most common?
Popular interests include bondage, roleplay, domination and submission (D/s), voyeurism, latex, and foot fetishes – though everyone’s preferences are unique.
Is this site like FetLife?
It’s similar in community spirit but designed for dating and meaningful connections, not just social networking or discussion forums.
How do I stay safe while meeting people?
Always communicate clearly, meet in public first if you choose to meet offline, and never feel pressured into sharing or doing anything that makes you uncomfortable.
Is fetish dating LGBTQ+ friendly?
Yes, fetish communities are typically very inclusive, welcoming all genders, sexualities, and dynamics.
Do I have to pay to join?
Basic membership is often free, with optional upgrades that unlock features like messaging, advanced search filters, and private photo access.